What your black son thinks about black women What's wrong with our sisters? When I was growing up, there were great African-American females that were examples of sisterhood. Yet today, a lot of African-American women are ill-mannered, self-centered and disrespectful to the black men that they should be falling all over themselves to get attention from. So I've decided to give you a glimpse inside of my head so you can understand why your son is not choosing the African-American women that you want him to choose.